Soul-mates

What is unconditional love?

Soul love is unconditional. It does not demand and gives freedom. It has the well-being of the other in mind. Unconditional love lives from the desire to know the kindred soul in happiness and contentment. Pure love without limit will strive and act so that the partner can be happy. One wants to make life easier for the partner and use the closeness of heart for a never-ending love. One can prepare oneself intensively to live love without limit. Through self-love, honesty towards oneself, coupled with loving openness towards other people. Tenderness, sexuality, closeness, humor, laughter – dialogue on all sensual levels are also among the ways to love without limit. Especially on the subject of self-love, the path to a happy soul partnership leads through a happy relationship with oneself. Also appreciation towards another person can only be developed if there is appreciation towards oneself.

When is one relationship incapable?

Relationship incompetent is the colloquial term used to describe people who throw themselves into partnerships again and again. But then realize after a while that they can’t do it. As a result, they leave their partner again out of fear of commitment. Many short relationships characterize relationship-incompetent people. Possible warning signs can be a lack of planning for the future, a lack of interest in the partner. An unconditional love for other people paves the way to a soul partnership and a happy relationship, also with oneself. The difficult thing is that many people are not aware that they are not ready for a relationship for a variety of reasons and are endangering their partnership with their behavior. Women in particular are afraid of entering into a relationship; it could quickly come to an end. The cause often lies in childhood. In psychology, one speaks of “attachment anxiety”, “attachment disorder”, “attachment phobia”. Regarding the symptoms, there is widespread agreement: people who cannot establish a relationship with a person want unconditional independence; they do not like to commit themselves and do not plan for the future. Sudden withdrawal, fluctuations of opinion, attribution of guilt can expose the attachment phobic.

Difference between a “normal” love relationship and a soul partnership?

Most love relationships begin with infatuation, but soul partnership often skips this infatuation. There is immediately a deep connection, an inner recognition of the other person. It feels like coming home warmly. It feels different from the famous lightning strike that is often used to describe hot love at first sight. Then it is also often the case that there were incredible parallels in the lives of the lovers or earlier occasions where they could have met. Many people are very “foreign” in new relationships, in soul partnerships this often falls away, because it is not necessary, because from the beginning there is this enchanting connection. Soul partners often communicate non-verbally.

Does he really exist – our soul partner, who is only meant for us?

Yes, there is this soul mate, but that does not mean that there can be only one. There are many souls with whom we are connected and these can all meet us if we want to see them. However, the unconditional love full of trust can also be lived completely without the belief in soul partnership. Soul partners are also not always automatically life partners with whom everyday life can be lived harmoniously, quite the opposite: often these encounters are a single challenge to our trust in ourselves and other people. Soul partners teach to love.

How do we even recognize this special person who is meant for us?

The targeted search is one of those things: It is usually fed by the will. But with it one prevents the “flow”, the letting happen or in the worst case one makes it impossible to find the soul mate. Nevertheless, each individual can do much to invite the soul partner into his life: By preparing himself for love in his life and learning to trust his own wisdom.

Is mad infatuation already a sign of soul mate?

Such intensity of feeling can be infatuation and feel similar to meeting a soul mate. But being in love is above all connected with biochemical processes: Hormones go out of control. We all know that. And we all know the feeling when the feeling of being in love fades. Soul love is something else: an inner recognition of the other person, the feeling of knowing each other for a very long time, a deep shaking of the soul, the knowledge of the essence of the other person and the unintentional and unconditional love without limit.

What can we do concretely to find our soul mate?

This question no longer arises for people who have met a soul mate: they simply feel it deeply within themselves. Their inner being goes into resonance; it is a knowing and recognizing beyond the mind. Always show yourself completely, be fundamentally honest with yourself and do not pretend. Show everything you are and have, all strengths and weaknesses. Share your thoughts and feelings, talk about your fears and desires. Don’t put yourself down; don’t wallow in your faults and flaws, but leave the role of victim forever, never to return. The key to love in partnership is self-love. Only those who love themselves can be loved in the same way and give unconditional love to others.

How we deal with it when a special relationship ends?

Grieving, suffering, regret Intensely and without avoiding all the pain that comes with it. Otherwise they will only get bigger. Then: move on. True to the motto: “Fall down, get up, straighten the crown, keep going”. The experience of having found a soul mate also means that there is deep capacity for love. That gives courage, that gives hope. My own experience, and that of many other people, shows: Whoever was once able to experience such love, to accept it and give it, will do so again. Because he has invited love into his life.

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